People, Incidents, Actions.

Hi,

I'm actually shaking while writing this post. It's more of a dear diary moment for me but for the internet. I know it doesn't make sense but that's what this blog is all about.

I just discovered how fucked up one of my friend's life is, I know it's not new and mostly all of my friends' lives are fucked up in different ways. But this is shocking, you feel like you know a person in and out and then you hear something and it changes your views about that person, for good. No, it doesn't mean that I'm letting a particular incident define how good/bad of a person he/she is but you know,  it just makes you more aware of that person in a way that you understand them better. You understand their actions better.

I can't fathom the number of times I've annoyed my friends about how irritated I am with stuff going on in my life, some temporary some long-lasting. It's weird how I feel I am one of the most unlucky people out there and that why do I have to be the one who has to go through everything. But then every once in a while I talk to someone and realize how I have been such a cry baby not even realizing how other people are going through so much more than me.

Some people have family problems, some have their own personal issues, there's so much wrong in the world going on and I feel like shit for thinking and writing about love and bullshit relationships.  But also it's love that makes a huge difference so I can't just abandon it too, right? RIGHT?

I mean, It's wrong to say that one individual's problems are bigger/smaller than the other individual's because us humans have different mechanisms to cope up with these problems, the way we take them, the way we tackle them, the way we learn from them and the way we embrace them, it's all different.

So, I guess it's not right to say "Dude, your life is so much worse than me"  because even if the intensity of the problem might feel small but it shaped you in the person you are today. Some people become care-free, some fail to trust people again, some people fear to visit a particular place. People behave the way they behave for some reasons that they'll probably never tell to anyone. We judge other people so quickly without even knowing their stories. Most of the friendships grow through gossiping about other people which is not healthy but we all do it knowingly or unknowingly. It is the very foundation of some friendships, hating the same people. It would be hypocritic of me to say I haven't done it either but I hope to get better at it and I think you should too.

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